When was the last time you had an intentional conversation?

We might think of an intentional conversation as one with purpose. While many conversations have a goal in mind, perhaps the most important purpose of all is to build trusting, accountable relationships between and among people. This kind of conversation takes the work of deep listening and honoring another person’s story. It takes the work of self-examination and careful attention to our words, and the way they might impact others. Intentional conversations take patience, a deliberate allowing of space and time.

I spoke on Sunday of the importance of intentional conversations that acknowledge and celebrate our differences- and our shared humanity- to build beloved community. At UUC, every conversation is an opportunity to practice this skill and strengthen our connections. I have found that by prioritizing relationship-building over long agendas in ministry team meetings, we actually accomplish more in the long run. After all, we are here not to check off to do lists, but to support one another’s spiritual journeys. I believe that by transforming ourselves- becoming more of who we are- we can do more to transform our world.

This Sunday, let’s join together for some intentional conversations. We will have space in worship to reflect together on the topic of history- the parts that are taught, and the parts that are not. We have also started a practice of holding intentional conversations in breakout rooms after the service. These conversations are focused on our connections to one another and the congregation, as we seek to strengthen our bonds during this virtual time.  Finally, all ages are invited to join for a hike after the service (info in announcement below). What better way to embody the spiritual journey we walk together than to share an outdoors adventure in nature! Let the conversations arise naturally- with the intention to be present to one another and to the moment.

In faith,
Rev. Terri